hey everybody.....my name is Toyosi and i am a blogger-holic lol but seriously i am gettin addicted slightly...nwayz dats not what this blog is about.
why do so many people believe that men and women are so drastically different. aside from our physical differences and a few scientific differences we are actually quiet similar in nature.
lemme explain
the same way that you can get a no good, government dependent, rude, immature, ignorant, needy and unsuccessful man is the same way u can get a no good government dependent, rude, immature, ignorant, needy and unsuccessful woman. women can be gangsters, men can be sluts, women can cheat, men can cheat, women can abandon their children, men can abandon their children. what I'm trying to get at is that both genders need to stop thinking that i can think like a man or woman because that's when things get complicated.
when a man wants to think like a woman then he'll start phoning her 10 times a day thinking that she is thinking that he loves and cares for her so much and always thinking about her but she just wants to get on with her day and stop being bugged by her ringtone and when she wants to think like him she won't call him she'll let him have a week to jam with his boys...she'll be thinking yeah i'm being a good un-clinging girl and he'll appreciate me but really his wondering whats up with her does she not care? is she with another guy? etc etc (i'm sure ya'll confused already just reading this because i am just by typing lol).
4 real though i have thought about this for a while.....a real difference between men and women is what bugs us a woman will ask her man why he does not put the toilet seat down and why he kept disturbing her during her girls shopping day with regular updates of the football (out of excitement) but a man won't say anything about the toilet seat he'll just be putting up with all kind of madness till 1 day he snaps and then starts with 'did i complain when you gained weight?' 'or when your food tasted flat?' or when your sex performance dropped?' see what he complains about and whats she complains about?
men get hurt as well when their girl leaves them or cheats on them they just try to be all together about it and say they cool and all other kinda lies...but his hurting for real and you have some women who leaving their man has no effect on them what so ever she was just with him for money, sex or both she got what she wanted and bounced- typical 'male' mentality right? well yeah course it is because a woman cannot be a player she's a hoe and a man is not a hoe but DA MAN!!! see us as a society created this dumb difference and now that we are trying to get rid of it we get things like if i were a boy, Ms independent, like a boy....blah blah blah
Don't get me wrong i like these songs but they are what i call troops that have come to fight this injustice and division in society.
well i'm sure that there are plenty of people out there who disagree with me but this is just my opinion and well....dats it. :):):)
nwayz till next time...peace, love and prosperity
Valid argument..
ReplyDeleteThe only problem is you're lumping all men into the same category..
Some women prefer to hear their ringtone often.. and even look forward to you calling.. and some men prefer it when she doesn't call all the time.. rather than think she's playing..
so it depends on what side of the coin you're on..
Dats tru i agree wit rocnaija...totally depends on wot side of d coin u r on,personally i fink dere is so much stereotypin in d world 2day.
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